Current:Home > FinanceBethenny Frankel opens up about breakup with fiancé Paul Bernon: 'I wasn't happy' -TrueNorth Capital Hub
Bethenny Frankel opens up about breakup with fiancé Paul Bernon: 'I wasn't happy'
Robert Brown View
Date:2025-04-11 02:19:06
Following a highly publicized breakup, Bethenny Frankel is getting candid about her split from fiancé Paul Bernon.
"The Real Housewives of New York City" alum opened up about the former couple's relationship during Sunday's episode of the "Just B with Bethenny Frankel" podcast. Frankel and Bernon reportedly broke up around March after six years of dating.
"I went through a breakup. It was something that I kept to myself," Frankel said. "It was something that I mourned on my own, and I did therapy, and I did the work and I just didn't feel like it needed to be shared.
"It was a breakup that I wanted to process alone privately, and I didn't feel that I owed anybody any explanation."
Bethenny Frankel opens up:TV personality says she was 'relieved' about 2012 miscarriage amid marriage to Jason Hoppy
Need a break? Play the USA TODAY Daily Crossword Puzzle.
Frankel also detailed her experience of revisiting the breakup when media coverage of Bernon's new relationship with Aurora Culpo surfaced.
Bethenny Frankel says she 'initiated' breakup with Paul Bernon
While Frankel's breakup with Bernon was "certainly mutual," the TV personality said she "initiated" the split.
"I wasn't happy. Something needed to change," Frankel said. "The relationship had its challenges, and nobody dumped anybody. But I went through it. I was scared because of my past and my abandonment issues."
She continued: "I get very scared when there's any sort of change in someone you depend on and someone that you love, but I knew that it was ultimately the right thing. And I really made peace with it, and I was happy. I was thriving, and I was surviving."
However, three months after their breakup, Bernon was reportedly spotted "making out" with Culpo, sister of actress and model Olivia Culpo.
Bethenny Frankel says it was 'gutting' to learn Paul Bernon was dating Aurora Culpo
Frankel said it was "gutting" to come across extensive media coverage of Bernon's relationship with Culpo, which she said felt like being "inside someone else's relationship."
Frankel said while she initially chose not to address Bernon's new relationship because she was "focusing on myself," she said she struggled to see herself depicted as "some sort of spinster that's just home crying, suffering a breakup, and watching this new transition."
"I started to see my name in headlines being portrayed as the jilted ex who had been upgraded from, that my ex had moved on from me with a younger woman," Frankel said. "It regurgitated the continuous narrative that he is a very under-the-radar person who had now gotten serious with someone, had a girlfriend, met her family, met her kids."
More 'Real Housewives' news:Why 'RHONY' alum Kelly Bensimon called off her wedding to Scott Litner days before the ceremony
Despite their whirlwind romance, Bernon and Culpo reportedly broke up after two months of dating.
"I just want to say that I'm OK," Frankel said. "I mean, it was rough because I had to experience the same breakup twice, but way worse the second time because I had to hear about all these details."
Bethenny Frankel reveals she messaged Olivia Culpo amid Paul Bernon breakup
Frankel said she reached out to Culpo's sister Olivia before the "media spectacle" of Bernon and Culpo’s relationship "got out of hand."
The former "RHONY" star said the actress's "sweet" response gave her some emotional solace.
"She was really nice and said she's a fan and (that) she has all my books and she really looks up to me," Frankel said. "That was really kind, and it was actually a nice warm blanket during this whole crazy thing."
Frankel remained optimistic about her healing journey following her breakup with Bernon.
"I am in therapy. I am working on myself,” Frankel said. “I am confident. I am single. I am independent. I am happy, and I will survive this."
veryGood! (62)
Related
- Civic engagement nonprofits say democracy needs support in between big elections. Do funders agree?
- 5 things to know about Southwest's disastrous meltdown
- Tidal-wave type flooding leads to at least one death, swirling cars, dozens of rescues in Northeast
- Police link man to killings of 2 women after finding second body in Minnesota storage unit
- Civic engagement nonprofits say democracy needs support in between big elections. Do funders agree?
- It's a mystery: Women in India drop out of the workforce even as the economy grows
- Larry Nassar stabbed multiple times in attack at Florida federal prison
- China, India Emissions Pledges May Not Be Reducing Potent Pollutants, Study Shows
- Warm inflation data keep S&P 500, Dow, Nasdaq under wraps before Fed meeting next week
- January is often a big month for layoffs. Here's what to do in a worst case scenario
Ranking
- SFO's new sensory room helps neurodivergent travelers fight flying jitters
- Chrissy Teigen Slams Critic Over Comments About Her Appearance
- Text: Joe Biden on Climate Change, ‘a Global Crisis That Requires American Leadership’
- Pete Davidson Charged With Reckless Driving for Crashing Into Beverly Hills House
- Sonya Massey's father decries possible release of former deputy charged with her death
- In a Move That Could be Catastrophic for the Climate, Trump’s EPA Rolls Back Methane Regulations
- A Lawsuit Challenges the Tennessee Valley Authority’s New Program of ‘Never-Ending’ Contracts
- California offshore wind promises a new gold rush while slashing emissions
Recommendation
Backstage at New York's Jingle Ball with Jimmy Fallon, 'Queer Eye' and Meghan Trainor
Protests Target a ‘Carbon Bomb’ Linking Two Major Pipelines Outside Boston
Buying an electric car? You can get a $7,500 tax credit, but it won't be easy
UFC Fighter Conor McGregor Denies Sexually Assaulting Woman at NBA Game
Arkansas State Police probe death of woman found after officer
How to keep your New Year's resolutions (Encore)
Kate Mara Gives Sweet Update on Motherhood After Welcoming Baby Boy
Flight fare prices skyrocketed following Southwest's meltdown. Was it price gouging?